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Dear Shawn,
My question is: When men think they are not "worthy" due to, let's say, impotence, and when I say, "it doesn't matter," it’s not enough. What can a woman do to REINFORCE her love to her man? Thanks in advance.
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Dear Shawn,
Recently, I heard you speaking about struggling with low self-esteem. I think I might be afflicted with that in my current relationship. What did you do to overcome that?
Dave
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Dear Shawn,
I was at one of your workshops, and you mentioned Support as something you didn’t used to believe in, but now you do. It was one part I wasn’t totally clear about. Could you please go over that bit again?
Thank you,
Stephen
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Dear Shawn,
I’ve heard you mention your, “Law of Authenticity,” at one of your and Lorraine’s workshops I recently attended. As a leader, how do I be the “real me” in the workplace, without losing my credibility? Could you explain that again please?
Thanks,
Tim
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Dear Shawn,
My partner and I have an amazing relationship. The only challenge that comes up for us once in a while is this being “right” thing. We get stuck on having to be right about things. For example, we have her kids every other week, and I have my thoughts on how her children should be raised, and she has hers. These differences cause some tension that neither of us wants. How do we get unstuck in these situations?
Thanks,
Mr. Right.
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Dear Shawn,
I’ve been struggling with knowing what to buy my gal for Valentine’s Day. You seem to be a bit of a pro at the romance stuff. What do you think??
Need an Answer, Vancouver
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Dear Shawn,
Sometimes I get jealous in my relationship. Got any ideas on that?
Waiting for your response,
Craig
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Okay so here's the deal!
How do I create a win/win for both me and my boyfriend when I feel that I am in the relationship fully, and I see him with one foot in and one foot out?
I have been involved with him for almost 2yrs and we have been having a long distance relationship for 18 months of it. Only in the past month has he been living with me and my 3 children. I have been in love with him pretty much since the beginning. I have openly shared the emotion and the words, but he has only just said "I love you" a couple of weeks ago for the first time. I have been talking about marriage a lot and really want a commitment from him, and he has even shown me rings in the jewelry store. But now, tonight, he has come up with another excuse as to why he is not willing to buy the ring and through that conversation admitted that he is just not into being married. This saddens me. It of course brings back all my insecurities and I feel like Im worth nothing. Right now in all of this emotion, I want to throw in the towel and give up! I question my intention and motives for feeling this way, and wonder why he does not love me or want me to be his wife? Do I hang in there and wait for my Prince to figure it out, or do I move along my merry way?
In the meantime, how can I create a win/win?
Thank you for your time and comments.
Many Blessings
Sandi~
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I have been dating my boyfriend now for over a year. It has been a long distance relationship until last month, we are now living together. Last week I learned that my boyfriend has ADD. I have had moments when I wondered why he had difficulty in understanding simple things, and also angered very easy. Now I know but I feel like I have been blindsided. I am 44 and he 34. I have been through a long term marriage of 18 years and raised 2 children to adulthood. I have been reading of ADD and I know the road ahead may be very frustrating and arduous. Frankly, I don’t think I have the patience for this kind of relationship. I love him and feel if I end the relationship because of this that I will be another one of those people in his life that lets him down, and, being ADD he will only see it as this, and not because I need to take care of me. I’m finding a simple misunderstanding always turns out to be a 3 hour battle… I’m getting weary. Also, he will not admit to having this affliction and will not seek help as he thinks to the extreme, that he is dysfunctional and less of a person. What is the best course of action?
Yours Truly,
Weary in Whiterock.
Shawn,
I’ve been with my wife for 9 years, and I’m feeling like I’m getting lazy in the love department. There’s too much stuff getting in the way like work, kids, the house and other commitments. My relationship with my wife is really important to me and I’m afraid that I’m letting it slide. Any advice?
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I recently moved in with my girlfriend and already am feeling smothered and thinking of running away. I love her and don’t know what to do?
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